{"id":1666,"date":"2025-08-25T20:02:20","date_gmt":"2025-08-25T20:02:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.betodi.com\/high-performers-dont-dwell-on-losses-they-move-forward\/"},"modified":"2025-08-28T21:53:32","modified_gmt":"2025-08-28T21:53:32","slug":"high-performers-dont-dwell-on-losses-they-move-forward","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.betodi.com\/en\/high-performers-dont-dwell-on-losses-they-move-forward\/","title":{"rendered":"High-performers don\u2019t dwell on losses. They move forward."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cPali, I\u2019m glad you\u2019re just human too.\u201d<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That\u2019s what one of my amazing clients told me, and I have to admit \u2013 I kept thinking about that sentence the whole day.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let me give you the context.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On Wednesday mornings, I almost always have my 2-hour bike training in the office.<\/p>\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.betodi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/image-9-576x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1636\" style=\"width:300px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.betodi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/image-9-576x1024.png 576w, https:\/\/www.betodi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/image-9-169x300.png 169w, https:\/\/www.betodi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/image-9-768x1365.png 768w, https:\/\/www.betodi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/image-9-864x1536.png 864w, https:\/\/www.betodi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/image-9.png 1152w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s brutal. When Pe\u0165o Sagan said there\u2019s nothing nice about cycling, he was right. <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s pure suffering, especially when you\u2019re not out in nature, but just grinding for strength and endurance.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This time, I was pushing high watts, and more than 5 times I thought about quitting.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My legs were gone. Zero energy. Sleep wasn\u2019t great either.  <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But somehow, I finished it. And yes, I pounded my chest with pride that I didn\u2019t give up. <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But going back to what my client told me&#8230;<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I started to wonder: How do I actually come across to others?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That everything goes easily for me?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That it\u2019s all comfortable?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That people see me winning, but don\u2019t see the grind, the sweat, the pain, the quiet lonely battles?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maybe it\u2019s time to talk about the things I messed up.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The 1000 cold emails in 2022 that brought 7 replies and 1 meeting that went nowhere.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The LinkedIn spamming when I invited everyone to discovery calls, hoping someone would care.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My stubbornness, thinking I could build a business alone without help \u2013 it cost me over 8 months.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My pride, not hiring a sports coach and trying to prep for a marathon by myself, where at the 32nd km I nearly died (literally). <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">All the people who didn\u2019t choose me. Who ghosted me. Or canceled collaborations we agreed on.  <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The nights spent studying, testing, experimenting \u2013 only to be useless the next day.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">All that physical pain, but also the mental pain, when it felt like the whole world was against me&#8230;<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There\u2019s a lot I could write about.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But while you might be stuck on one failed attempt&#8230;<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2026I\u2019ve already got dozens of hours behind me.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Another discovery call in my calendar. A few offers on the table with dream clients&#8230; <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And no, I\u2019m not bragging. That\u2019s not the point. <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I just want to remind you of one thing:<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019m human. I make mistakes. A lot of them. They hurt. And I suffer often&#8230;   <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But I don\u2019t let one or two losses stop me.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Because sports taught me \u2013 before you can start winning, you first need to learn from losing.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And that\u2019s exactly what most people don\u2019t do.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They go in circles. Drown in fear. <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Look for reasons why not, instead of ways how yes.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They avoid failure, pain, and the unknown&#8230;<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At the very beginning of my business journey, Daniel Kraft told me something I\u2019ll never forget:<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cIf you choose this entrepreneurial path, it will always be about signing the next client\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And that path won\u2019t be \u2013 and doesn\u2019t need to be \u2013 pleasant.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That will never change.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Either you\u2019re cut out for it. Or go get a job instead. <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And me?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">3 years later, I\u2019m still playing this same game.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not as an immortal.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But as someone who refuses to give up, even when he hits the ground hard, or when it hurts down to the bone.<\/p>\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/www.betodi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/image-10-1024x682.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1638\" style=\"width:500px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.betodi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/image-10-1024x682.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.betodi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/image-10-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/www.betodi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/image-10-768x512.png 768w, https:\/\/www.betodi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/image-10-1536x1023.png 1536w, https:\/\/www.betodi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/image-10-2048x1364.png 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Finish line Half-Ironman: 5h 26min<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">With that, I wish you a great weekend \u2013 and challenge you to think about how you\u2019ll start the next week.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Will you let every failure slow you down or stop you?<br\/>Or will you play your own game \u2013 with confidence \u2013 and always for the win?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Always in your corner.<\/p>\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/fonts.gstatic.com\/s\/e\/notoemoji\/16.0\/1f3c6\/32.png\" alt=\"&#x1F3C6;\"\/><\/figure>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pali \u201cjust a mortal\u201d Lo\u0161onsk\u00fd<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cPali, I\u2019m glad you\u2019re just human too.\u201d That\u2019s what one of my amazing clients told me, and I have to admit \u2013 I kept thinking about that sentence the whole day. Let me give you the context. On Wednesday mornings, I almost always have my 2-hour bike training in the office. It\u2019s brutal. 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